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HAPPY NEW YEAR!
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By the time I finished packing my suitcase I was furious.
"Who do you think you are?", my inner gremlin was saying, over and over again, in a way which always kind of freaks me out and that's when I knew I was just about to stretch my comfort zone and that doesn't play well with my inner critic, like never.
I stopped pretending I had no needs, years ago. But even now, I still find myself thinking that maybe my needs are, I don't know, "needier" than other people's. Maybe I'm the taking the concept of needing to the extremes. The minute I reminded myself of the fact that I do deserve to have my needs met, my inner critic, George, rolled his eyes, turned around and left.
Just like that. Boom! -You weren't ready for that, George, were you?
So before I get on that plane on Sunday, I wanted to leave you with this.
To Need is Human. Period.
It's not bad, its not something to be ashamed of, its not a sign of weakness {in life nor business} and most of all having needs does not make you needy.
Confident people have needs, successful people have needs, every one of us has needs.
So, if there's anything you need, instead of putting it at the end of your to-do list, or even worse dismissing it all together as unimportant, try to do something about it.
Ask for help, buy yourself that plane ticket, ask a friend to come over and keep you company, have a glass of wine reading your favourite book.
Do something small or big, to meet your need for clarity, love, respect, success, security or companionship.
I'll be back in February, hopefully feeling refreshed and renewed and with a great sense of business clarity. In the meanwhile, know that you can always connect with me through Facebook or email me at [email protected]
"Who do you think you are?", my inner gremlin was saying, over and over again, in a way which always kind of freaks me out and that's when I knew I was just about to stretch my comfort zone and that doesn't play well with my inner critic, like never.
I stopped pretending I had no needs, years ago. But even now, I still find myself thinking that maybe my needs are, I don't know, "needier" than other people's. Maybe I'm the taking the concept of needing to the extremes. The minute I reminded myself of the fact that I do deserve to have my needs met, my inner critic, George, rolled his eyes, turned around and left.
Just like that. Boom! -You weren't ready for that, George, were you?
So before I get on that plane on Sunday, I wanted to leave you with this.
To Need is Human. Period.
It's not bad, its not something to be ashamed of, its not a sign of weakness {in life nor business} and most of all having needs does not make you needy.
Confident people have needs, successful people have needs, every one of us has needs.
So, if there's anything you need, instead of putting it at the end of your to-do list, or even worse dismissing it all together as unimportant, try to do something about it.
Ask for help, buy yourself that plane ticket, ask a friend to come over and keep you company, have a glass of wine reading your favourite book.
Do something small or big, to meet your need for clarity, love, respect, success, security or companionship.
I'll be back in February, hopefully feeling refreshed and renewed and with a great sense of business clarity. In the meanwhile, know that you can always connect with me through Facebook or email me at [email protected]
P.S.: Create movement in your life
Movement in your body creates movement in your life. If you are someone who could use a little inspiration to get yourself moving, experience inspired movement + feel alive again {minus the stress & drama} please check out my good friend Nichole’s 21 Day Get Moving Challenge, a worldwide FREE challenge.
She is going to give you easy to follow, short workouts or movement goals each day PLUS daily challenges to get you feeling #WildlyAlive every day.
Check out the video she made for you, and if it looks like something you would enjoy, go ahead and sign up for the Challenge.
Movement in your body creates movement in your life. If you are someone who could use a little inspiration to get yourself moving, experience inspired movement + feel alive again {minus the stress & drama} please check out my good friend Nichole’s 21 Day Get Moving Challenge, a worldwide FREE challenge.
She is going to give you easy to follow, short workouts or movement goals each day PLUS daily challenges to get you feeling #WildlyAlive every day.
Check out the video she made for you, and if it looks like something you would enjoy, go ahead and sign up for the Challenge.
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About Me
Hi, I'm Nichole, and I am a personal motivator and coach, passionate about reigniting the spark in people both in life and business. My specialty? Getting people to ACT by breaking anything down, into to the next action! I work with passion driven women to help them set their priorities straight and and thrive in life and business, on their own terms. Connect with me on Facebook or email me at [email protected] |
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