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Being in a toxic relationship, whether strictly platonic, professional or romantic, can leave you feeling drained, worn out and with a huge appetite for greasy burgers and loaded pizzas.
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Learn how to attract the right kind of people to your life. Hint: You can start making meaningful connections starting today!
But was it just my professional environment that was infested with this poisonous, negative energy? Sadly enough it wasn’t. Even a night with a few of my “friends” was enough to literally drain me of energy and return home feeling exhausted and worn out.
Does that sound like you?
If it does, then I have one piece of advice for you. Free yourself from destructive relationships. Give yourself permission to value your well-being, more than all the MUSTs and SHOULDs of this world combined and protect yourself from unsupportive, judgemental, draining people.
Does that sound like you?
If it does, then I have one piece of advice for you. Free yourself from destructive relationships. Give yourself permission to value your well-being, more than all the MUSTs and SHOULDs of this world combined and protect yourself from unsupportive, judgemental, draining people.
Are you in a toxic relationship? Learn how to spot one here.
Your friends are toxic? Here’s what you can do about it.
So, what happens after you spring clean your life from toxic people?
Naturally, you initially take some time to properly mourn for your loss and to endure the pain you order even more pizza and greasy burgers and when that doesn’t help, you simply pull the duvet over your head and sit silently waiting for a miracle to happen hoping that one day you’ll wake up surrounded by loving, positive people that make you feel good and energise you.
I have bad new and good news, for you, cinderella.
Loving, supportive people will never find you, as long as you’re hiding under the covers but you can attract the right kind of people, into your life.
“But how?” You ask. “Obviously I made a lousy job the first time around. Maybe I deserve to spend the rest of my life in solitude, watching bad TV and eating Doritos for dinner.”
To that I say NO. What you deserve is to be surrounded with wonderful, supportive people who help you grow and be happy. Period.
Here are some easy steps on how to attract the right kind of people into your life.
Naturally, you initially take some time to properly mourn for your loss and to endure the pain you order even more pizza and greasy burgers and when that doesn’t help, you simply pull the duvet over your head and sit silently waiting for a miracle to happen hoping that one day you’ll wake up surrounded by loving, positive people that make you feel good and energise you.
I have bad new and good news, for you, cinderella.
Loving, supportive people will never find you, as long as you’re hiding under the covers but you can attract the right kind of people, into your life.
“But how?” You ask. “Obviously I made a lousy job the first time around. Maybe I deserve to spend the rest of my life in solitude, watching bad TV and eating Doritos for dinner.”
To that I say NO. What you deserve is to be surrounded with wonderful, supportive people who help you grow and be happy. Period.
Here are some easy steps on how to attract the right kind of people into your life.
Give yourself permission to value your well-being, more than all the MUSTs and SHOULDs of this world.[tweet this]
1. Know WHO you are and WHAT you like. Get some time to know yourself better. How do you like to spend your time? What are your likes & dislikes? What makes your heart sing? Are you into sports, art or both? What excites you? Is it politics or self-development? Rediscover yourself, your passions, your values, your dreams and that will surely attract like-minded people into your life, people with whom you can connect in many different levels.
2. LOVE yourself. I can’t stress the importance of this step enough. How can you expect to attract the right people into your life when you feel rejected, unwanted and unloved by non other but yourself. Love yourself fearlessly. Practice self compassion, indulge in some serious self-care and fall in love with yourself.
3. BE yourself. Do not try to hide your true nature. If you do, the right people will have a really hard time finding you. How are you ever going to attract the people who sing your song, preach your sermon and speak your language, when you spend your days being someone else than who you truly are. Be yourself, unapologetically, besides, everyone else, is already taken.
We all need to belong.
That doesn’t necessarily mean settling for second best, or hiding your uniqueness under carefully crafted socially acceptable personas.
So, learn to accept and love yourself for who you are, when all the labels are off and let your personality shine so bright that like-minded people are drawn to you like a magnet.
How do you attract the right people to your life? Let me know in the comments below.
2. LOVE yourself. I can’t stress the importance of this step enough. How can you expect to attract the right people into your life when you feel rejected, unwanted and unloved by non other but yourself. Love yourself fearlessly. Practice self compassion, indulge in some serious self-care and fall in love with yourself.
3. BE yourself. Do not try to hide your true nature. If you do, the right people will have a really hard time finding you. How are you ever going to attract the people who sing your song, preach your sermon and speak your language, when you spend your days being someone else than who you truly are. Be yourself, unapologetically, besides, everyone else, is already taken.
We all need to belong.
That doesn’t necessarily mean settling for second best, or hiding your uniqueness under carefully crafted socially acceptable personas.
So, learn to accept and love yourself for who you are, when all the labels are off and let your personality shine so bright that like-minded people are drawn to you like a magnet.
How do you attract the right people to your life? Let me know in the comments below.
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Reduce Daily Stress and Pamper yourself Silly with Small Acts of Self Care
Are you holding yourself back? | Break free from your own limiting beliefs, starting today.
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About Me
Hi, I'm Nichole, and I am a personal motivator and coach, passionate about reigniting the spark in people both in life and business. My specialty? Getting people to ACT by breaking anything down, into to the next action! I work with passion driven women to help them set their priorities straight and and thrive in life and business, on their own terms. Connect with me on Facebook or email me at nichole@take-ten.com |
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